BULL'S GUIDE TO LEAVING HER HAPPY
by ZoegasViewed: 218 times Comments 2 Date: 05-10-2015 Language:
Let’s jump right into it - here are a few things that might help you with us, and may other hotwife couples:
//- 1 -// MY HUSBAND: While my husband may not be in the bed or room with us he’s just as much a part of this fantasy as I am. His thoughts, ideas, preferences and comfort level are on my mind the entire time I’m with you and if you keep that in mind, you’ll go far.
THIS IS SOMETHING THAT WE DO AS A COUPLE, PLEASE UNDERSTAND, ACCEPT AND EMBRACE IT! Don’t shy away from including or talking about my husband. My best partners have gone as far as to grab my phone and text him throughout our date, or even FaceTime my performance during the action, which I find to be a HUGE turn on.
//- 2 -// REQUESTS: I think we’re pretty go with flow when it comes to meeting new guys. We’ve found that keeping expectations fluid helps us avoid issues later on…but we still have a few requests of the guys I meet. Ask the couple you’re meeting what they expect, if they have any requests of you. Maybe they like a particular hotel over another, a certain wine, or even a specific pic she wants to surprise her hubby with; whatever it might be it’s a good idea to ask if there’s any requests that you can fulfill for them.
//- 3 -// PICTURES & VIDEO: Those of us who meet solo do enjoy getting photos and videos. I like to have them so that if my husband wants to know what I was up to I can show him. He loves video and audio and face pics while I’m getting fucked so I try to get those for him but it doesn’t always work out. If I tell you you’re down to take pics…TAKE THEM! There’s a lot going on for us wives so don’t hesitate to remind us and take the initiative in getting video and pics. Also if it’s left up to me the pics will be of you and (no offense) my husband just doesn’t really care what the top of your head looks like…he’d much rather see his wife with a mouth full or my expressions so take the camera and start snapping away. More pictures are always better…unless it messes up your game in the moment and is too distracting.
//- 4 -// SAFETY & COMFORT: My husband wants to spend his evening being turned on and excited for my return; not worried about my safety while I’m with you. Of course I want to feel safe, comfortable and respected as well so make sure that happens. Show the couple you’re a stand up guy through actions and not just words. Bring condoms, give your name, address and phone number, open/buy drinks in front of me so I know there’s nothing in it. Avoid last minute changes in location, who’s going to be home, etc…it always comes off a sketchy to me (unless there’s a logical reason). Keeping thing open honest will go a loooong way towards ensuring a great date.
//- 5 -// Overall just be a decent guy and if you’re not sure of something – ask (best early on). Everyone has their own way of doing things but the general theme is that us wives want to feel safe and excited as we fulfill this fantasy. Our husbands want us to spend our time with gentlemen who understand and respect this kink and the boundaries that come with it.
As a couple we’re trusting you to join in on something that’s usually pretty private and intimate so if you accept then work with us to ensure that everyone comes out of each encounter happy and satisfied.
// the text above is taken from www.curvyhotwife.com //
